I am very "type A" and this is generally not something I am comfortable with. Planning, foreseeing, solving, those are my things. I have no problem with a natural birth - I am not that bad where I insist on knowing the due date... but being surprised by the gender is something I would like to do after we have both a girl and a boy, thus we would already be 'prepared'. Plus Aimee doesn't like getting lots of green and yellow "gender neutral" clothing. And we all know that is what everyone buys you -- clothing -- no matter what you ask or register for.
So how would this work? I guess I have a few weeks to think about it...